Close, accept, or decline
Finish the negotiation cleanly and keep relationships intact.
- Confirm final terms in writing before accepting.
- Know when to stop negotiating.
- Decline other offers gracefully.
Negotiations end with a decision. How you close matters: you will work with these people, and you may meet the companies you decline again. Finish clearly, in writing, and on good terms.
Closing well
- Know when to stop. After one or two rounds with meaningful movement, further pushing has diminishing returns. Accept when the offer meets your target.
- Get it in writing. Before accepting, get the updated offer letter with every agreed term: base, bonus target, equity amount and vesting, signing bonus and clawback terms, start date, level, and title.
- Accept clearly and confirm next steps, such as the background check and start date.
- Decline other offers promptly and graciously. Thank the recruiter and team; you may want to work there later.
- Resign professionally from your current job after the new offer is signed and any conditions are met.
Offers are rarely withdrawn because of a polite, professional negotiation. They are more at risk from ultimatums, dishonesty, or dragging a process out for weeks. Keep your tone collaborative from the first number to the final signature.
Practice: close well
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Up to 15 XPGood close or risky move?
The end of a negotiation has its own rules. Decide which of these protect you.
“Asking for the final terms in writing before resigning.”
“Resigning as soon as the recruiter says “it’s yours” on the phone.”
“Thanking the other companies when you decline.”
“Reopening the deal after you’ve agreed to terms.”
“Stopping after one or two rounds of real movement.”
Key takeaways
Stop after meaningful movement; don’t over-negotiate.
Get every term in writing before accepting.
Decline other offers graciously and resign professionally.
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